Friday, December 26, 2008

Merry Christmas and All that Jazz

Mom, Dad, Me, Ali, Tori, and Walker - Christmas Eve 2008

The boys' last day of school was the 18th, so we headed down to TX on the 22nd after we had our own Christmas celebration over the weekend. The trip down was quick and pleasant enough and we were glad to leave the zero degree weather to enter warmer climates (today it was in the 70s - so nice).

Christmas Eve consisted of the usual grandkids acting out the Christmas story and the opening of presents. There were 19 people to cycle through, so that took awhile but was lots of fun.

The Christmas Pageant Cast (partially)

Hot ticket items: Lego sets

Too much egg nog??

Christmas morning came bright and early and boys were indeed visited by Santa despite my many threats throughout the last month that they would not be. The Tooth Fairy also made a visit that night, as Big J lost his ninth tooth after Little J elbowed him in the mouth (it was already loose). Thankfully, the TX Tooth Fairy is much more on top of things than our regular Tooth Fairy and actually remembered to stop by during the night. We had great discussions on whether she and Santa bumped into each other.

Santa Spoils:

Most of Christmas was spent eating and laying around and watching A Christmas Story marathon, while the kids enjoyed their Christmas spoils. We did fire up a very long game of The Settlers of Catan, which the boys even liked to play. And of course there was Xbox playing.

Then today was fun and relaxing despite the fact I turned 35 years old, which makes me feel old. JC cheered me up with the fact that now I was closer to 70 than 0. Great. I really don't like the fact I am 35 now, so I will not dwell on it except to say that my mom bought me some really great black boots I was wanting. And I got a manicure. We will be down here for about another week, so more adventures to follow....

Friday, December 12, 2008

Deck the Halls

I haven't really felt like blogging much lately, as you've probably noticed. And I've been busy. I haven't even done Christmas cards. I don't even know if I will. (*gasp*) So don't be offended if you don't get one. Maybe I'll send New Year's letters. Or Valentines. Anyway, here are a few holiday-related updates.

Friday was the annual Christmas party at church. Only Little J and Little Man went with me, as the other boys had prior obligations. In preparation for the night, Little J and Little Man worked on their very first gingerbread house to enter into the gingerbread house contest. It quite possibly was my very first gingerbread house, because I don't remember doing one before. All I did was piece the house together for them, though, and they did the decorating. Little J had a small problem with Little Man interfering with his artistic vision of the house, but eventually they were able to get it finished.

That night we loaded up the van with all our goodies we were assigned to bring, got to the church, and realized we had left the gingerbread house at home. After much weeping and wailing and debating on whether or not it was that big of a deal, we had to go back to get the treasured gingerbread house. And after a much overdue Santa showing and way too many desserts, what to their wandering eyes did appear? A Three Wisemen Christmas ornament hanging on their gingerbread house. A prize! They were so proud.




On a totally unrelated subject - I bet you've never found these things in your Christmas tree:

1. Wadded up socks - much higher than any reachable height of the children in our home, so they had to have been thrown up there

2. Cotton balls

and my favorite...

3. A Hot Wheels toothbrush

What can I say? We add our own personal decorating touch around here.

Friday, December 5, 2008

Artist Reception

Last night was Little J's artist reception, which was a mad house, but was nice to go to anyway. He was not happy that I made him put on his "church clothes". I guess we didn't actually have to, because most people were dressed casually, but I didn't know what the dress was, and as my mom always said, "it is better to be overdressed than underdressed." That's a good rule of thumb I try to live by. I think all the boys got over it once they stuffed their faces full of the cookies there.
They gave each of the student artists a name tag and a button to pin on their shirts and then you had to walk around the two-story building and try to find where your particular student's art was hanging. That was a little crazy, but it was fun to see all the cute artwork displayed. We found Little J's on the top floor. It is a ripped construction paper collage of an owl from the book Good Night Owl. It represented texture. (I read all this info off the card next to his art). I thought he did a good job. I was impressed he could turn scraps of paper into an identifiable owl. He even highlighted the tree branch it is sitting on, as to give it a more realistic apprearance like the sun or moon is shining down on it. Who highlights tree branches?!?
We ran into his art teacher there, and I told her how much Little J enjoyed her class and she told me how much she enjoyed having him in there and how very talented he was. I think he had fun seeing his artwork up and I hope he felt good about himself.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Because he's soooo spiritual like that

The boys have quite a few animated "church movies" as we call them - animated scripture stories or movies with good morals, etc., to them and these are what I encourage them to watch on Sunday if they want to watch TV. Today Little J was so excited to tell me about their newest one and used words like "awesome" to describe it. He kept telling me I needed to watch it. He's never been so excited about a church movie before so I kept asking him what he liked about it and the truth came out. It was a video about when Jesus cleanses the temple of the money changers. And according to Little J it was so great because:

"He was like Indiana Jones because he had a really cool whip!"

Aaah, my little saint....

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Le Artiste

Some of you may remember Little J's penchant for art. In all seriousness, he really is a great little artist. I am continually amazed at the detail his drawings have in them and the creativity behind the scenes he creates. He has a good knack for perspective in his drawings, which I know most kids at the age of 5 do not have.

He draws constantly. This is no exaggeration. I buy boxes full of notebooks when they are on sale for school and he fills those notebooks with his drawings. He uses up our recycle/scratch paper pile before it can even get recycled. My house is continually graced with piles and piles of his drawings. Here are a few pics of some of his drawings that happen to be sitting right here. I could have picked up 3 or 4 more without moving from my chair. They are everywhere!

A scene from last week when I was outside raking the leaves and Little Man was jumping on the trampoline. It even has Little Man's jacket hanging on the trampoline, which it was.

A random farm scene complete with smiling sun.

A Thanksgiving scene in our kitchen. He even included the hanging kitchen utensils, etc. on the backsplash under the cabinet and blinds on the window over the sink.

We have tried to encourage him in this talent, and often praise him for his good work. But you should have seen him Friday, SO PROUD of himself (and of course we are really proud of him) because he came home from school with a letter from his art teacher saying that his art work had been selected to be displayed at the school district's Education Center where "hundreds of visitors, teachers and administrators will enjoy the exhibit." He was especially excited about the special reception they are having for the artists and their families where we will be able to "give special attention to the artists." He really liked that part.

I have no idea which of his art work was selected to be displayed, but when JC was up at the school a couple of weeks ago doing his "Watch DOG" duties, the art teacher specifically commented to him on how impressed she was with Little J's work. I will be sure to take pictures at the reception!

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Freedom of What?

I don't know how many of you are aware about the Freedom of Choice Act, but I think it is in everyone's best interest to become educated on this proposed legislation and act accordingly. It's no secret that I am pro-life and that I do not believe "choice" to kill a living baby is anything more than exactly that. A woman already "chose" what she wanted to do with her body and becoming pregnant is a possible consequence of that choice. You can't "unchoose." And to quote, Elder Russell M. Nelson, who I believe is an apostle of the Lord,

"This war called abortion is a war on the defenseless and the voiceless. It is a war on the unborn. This war is being waged globally. Ironically, civilized societies that have generally placed safeguards on human life have now passed laws that sanction this practice. This matters greatly to us because the Lord has repeatedly declared this divine imperative: 'Thou shalt not kill.' Then He added, 'Nor do anything like unto it.'... Man-made rules have now legalized that which has been forbidden by God from the dawn of time! Human reasoning has twisted and transformed absolute truth into sound-bite slogans that promote a practice that is consummately wrong." Ensign, October 2008

The Freedom of Choice Act, however, is particularly dangerous because it will elevate abortion to the level of a "fundamental right" and nullify over 550 federal and state laws that have already been put in place (most of which were voted into place). Here is a list of some of the things it will nullify:

- Partial Birth Abortion Ban Act of 2003 - *Can I just say that this is the most disgusting practice . I almost want to throw up just thinking about it. Sorry to be so graphic, but I think it's important everyone understands what this is. Partial Birth Abortion is what happens when the baby is already too big to be done away with the "traditional" way and the mother has to be dilated to deliver it. They deliver it feet first (because I guess the doctor is too cowardly to actually see the face of what he is destroying) and then basically suck the baby's brains out through the base of its skull before it is delivered fully. NO ONE can tell me that this is anything more than pure evil. Why don't you just pull it out and shoot it like the Nazi's use to? I think this ban was the best thing Bush ever did.
- Hyde Amendment (restricting taxpayer funding of abortions)
-Restrictions on abortions performed at military hospitals
-Restrictions on insurance coverage for abortion for federal employees
-Informed consent laws
-Waiting periods
-Parental consent and notification laws
-Health and safety regulations for abortion clinics
-Requirements that licensed physicians perform abortions
-“Delayed enforcement” laws (banning abortion when Roe v. Wade is overturned and/or the authority to restrict abortion is returned to the states)
-Bans on partial-birth abortion
-Bans on abortion after viability. FOCA’s apparent attempt to limit post-viability abortions is illusory. Under FOCA, post-viability abortions are expressly permitted to protect the woman’s “health.” Within the context of abortion, “health” has been interpreted so broadly that FOCA would not actually proscribe any abortion before or after viability.
-Limits on public funding for elective abortions (thus, making American taxpayers fund a procedure that many find morally objectionable)
-Limits on the use of public facilities (such has public hospitals and medical schools at state universities) for abortions
-State and federal legal protections for individual healthcare providers who decline to participate in abortions
-Legal protections for Catholic and other religiously-affiliated hospitals who, while providing care to millions of poor and uninsured Americans, refuse to allow abortions within their facilities

So basically, women won't have to be told the risks or alternatives to getting an abortion, there will be no restrictions or safety nets put in place to ensure safe abortion sites, my tax money will have to pay for them, any 12-year-old could walk in off the street and get an abortion without her parents knowing anything about it, and it will be against the law for any facility (even if faith-based) to refuse to perform an abortion. That's not progress. And I don't believe it empowers or protects women either. If you agree, go here: http://www.fightfoca.com/ to sign the petition against it. It takes thirty seconds, and could possibly make a difference.

To quote Edmund Burke, "The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good people to do nothing." I believe we should stand up for choice - the right choice - not simply for choice as a method.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Destructo

My house is pretty much tornado alley when it comes to my three boys living here. I try to keep the mess contained, but it is constant and fierce. Little Man has been a small factor in this until recently. I don't know what has gotten into him (his 2-year-old birthday maybe?) but he is one path of destruction after another. Today, on top of his normal mess-making rituals such as crushing goldfish crackers into millions of pieces or scattering 1,000 hot wheel cars all over the living room, he has: managed to lock himself in the bathroom and unroll an entire roll of toilet paper; he has emptied most of a bottle of lotion onto the carpet and all over himself; and he has emptied out an entire cabinet full of notebooks, construction paper, and other forms of crafty things and dumped them all over the room. When you factor in that he is asleep for a good 3 hours during the day for his nap, I'd say that he's pretty busy!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

The Block

So my sister Tori came up Tuesday to go to her teen-idol boy band's reunion concert, New Kids On The Block. I was glad I wasn't a complete poser and knew the words to a lot of their old songs. It was the strangest demographics I had ever seen at a concert - all 30-something females! There were seriously only like 10 guys in the entire Sprint Center. There were bras and belts and thongs flying up on stage. I will say my sister and I both left with our underwear intact, however. We had awesome seats and could see all the synchronized pelvic thrusts and crotch grabs clearly. Tori stood there like a lovestruck teenager with misty eyes most of the time. I almost started crying when they came out because she was starting to cry. I only took a couple of pics on my crappy phone camera, but I'm sure Tori will have up her full report soon enough and she took tons of pictures.

See? No men anywhere.
It was a fun concert. I only laughed twice - once when Jordan was up on an elevated platform, backlit with a spotlight, and a fan (the electric kind, not one from the crowd) started blowing as he ripped his shirt open and the crowd went wild, and once when Joey was doing something on the floor that reminded me of a Sports Illustrated model crawling sexily through the sand toward the camera. They did a good job, though, and it was entertaining. Natasha Bedingfield (Pocketful of Sunshine) opened for them and I really liked all her songs. I may have to go check out her CD.
This picture looks like we are far away, but we were really close. Only 6 rows up off the floor and only a couple of sections over.
I had to be her scheduling agent because there were several blog friends that lived in this area that wanted to see her and hang out. So most of our time was spent going between her admirers. It was fun to have my sister up here even if it was only for a quick trip.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Arbitrary

Today was our annual Primary program. It has been delayed for several weeks, so I was glad to finally have it done. It was awesome, and even though I am the one who oversees it all, do not think I am tooting my own horn. I had nothing to do with its awesomeness. But it really was beautiful. We let a lot of the parts be filled in by the kids themselves and that brought such a sweet spirit to it to hear their little hearts. And of course they sang wonderfully. We have a small Primary compared to a lot of wards, and I thought they pulled it off beautifully!

In other news, I've got a pooch already. I guess this is what happens on your fourth kid, when your stomach is already use to being stretched out for huge babies. It says to itself, "Gut, we've done this before..." and then pooches out right away. Yesterday, someone came up and the first thing they said was, "Are you already showing?!" Yeah, uh, thanks for pointing that out. Then a lady I am friends with called me later saying she'd heard a juicy piece of gossip and wanted to confirm it. I told her yes, it was true, and asked how she heard the news. She said her 12-year-old daughter heard the above exchange and told her mom, "and then I looked, and you could totally tell." I tried sucking it in, but it doesn't work. Oh well!

And for my last piece of news, this Tuesday, all of you will be so jealous because my sister Tori is coming up from TX to go to a reunion concert of her teenage obsession when she was 13 or so. They came in concert to Dallas but she couldn't go that day, so she's coming here, which I am totally excited about. I was too old to get into all the pre-teen swooning when they hit it big, but my sister had her room plastered with their posters and played their music constantly. I remember she told me they were going to be as big as the Beatles. We went to their concert in Oklahoma City to see them once and then saw them going into their hotel afterwards. Donnie Wahlberg (that was a clue of who this group is) kissed my sister on the cheek. She bawled uncontrollably. But I am going to this concert with her, too, even though I am going to be a total poser. So come Tuesday night we are going to be rockin' the house at the NEW KIDS ON THE BLOCK concert. Oh yeah!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

The Votes Are In...

Well, it's over. I admit it, I cried. I still stand completely behind all my previous sentiments. But, I am ready to move forward and give President-elect Obama a chance. And I do recognize and appreciate the significance of this election. I hope he can deliver all his ponies and rainbows. If nothing else, we'll have some good revival speeches to listen to for the next 4 years.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

My Last Political Post (yeah, it's long)

I read that 1 in 7 voters were still either undecided or open to discussion regarding their choice for the upcoming election. So I've been thinking about that. I know I only have like 10 readers, but if one of those readers is undecided, then I thought one last post would be worth it. I also started this out originally full of facts complete with non-partisan references, etc. But then I scratched that. So now I am just going to say what I feel, which may or may not be what you feel, and that is ok. Honestly, I don't think either side has all the answers. But here are my main reasons I will not be voting for Obama:

1. His economic policy: If you didn't see my earlier post regarding my feelings of the "redistribution plan" go here. I believe this program is socialist in nature. Socialists believe that capitalism causes wealth to be concentrated in only a small percentage of society, which creates an unequal society, and that that wealth should be spread evenly to create an egalitarian society. If I wanted to live in a socialist country, I'd go live in Cuba. I do not in any way believe America was meant to be a socialist country. I also believe that in many cases "equality" (term used loosely, because equality has now become very subjective) creates mediocrity. And don't even come back at me with the current economic crisis we are in now and how it is Bush's fault, etc. etc., and so we need some massive overhaul. The problems we face now go way back to when Clinton was in office when all the Democrats started demanding lenders lend to more "risky" investors in order to make housing opportunities more "equal" among minorities and the underpriviledged, while at the same time refusing to put into place necessary checks and balances. We see where that got us. I really feel strongly that this part of the Democratic campaign is the most dangerous and will lead this country down a very slippery slope.

2. His healthcare policy: Healthcare is a big issue for me because my husband is self-employed, so it is not cheap or easy to have adequate coverage for our family. I realize our healthcare system does need some tweaking, mainly because of the insurance companies, but his plan leans way too much toward nationalized healthcare, which I am totally against. When I lived in England, where the health care is nationalized, their medical system was a joke. If you were old, you might as well pick out your coffin because you were put on the bottom of the list. People sat around and basically rotted away from cancer or other ailments because they had to wait for months to see the specialists they needed. That, and the doctors were so apathetic about the whole thing they just prescribed pill after pill to people without really trying to get to the root of the problem. JC grew up in Mexico, where health care is also nationalized, and you will never hear him tooting the horn of how great nationalized healthcare is. His grandma nearly died a few years ago because she had breast cancer and couldn't get the treatment she needed because she was put off for months. If it hadn't been for his dad pulling a few strings with a private doctor, she would have died. It is true that under Obama's plan there would still be the opportunity for private health insurance, but compared to a plan where the government pays the bills using tax-payers money, obviously the cost of those private doctors and care would not be comparable, so essentially the private health industry would fall apart and/or only the elite would be able to afford them, which isn't that what is being fought against now? And again, where there is no drive to be better or do better, then you don't get any better, and what incentive would doctors have who do not have the opportunity to make a lucrative career out of taking care of people. Yes, some may be in it out of the goodness of their hearts, but come on, we all know money talks.
3. His possible appointment of Supreme Court justices. Very possibly, if elected, Obama will be able to appoint up to 3 Supreme Court justices, which as you know, would massively affect the direction of this country's policies. He said that judges that "understand the importance" of what it is like to be "poor, black, gay, disabled, and old" are what he would base his criteria on when selecting them. Hmmm....I am not poor, black, gay, disabled or old, and the majority of people I know are not either. I would hope that the top justices in the country would not be chosen because of their sympathies and/or predjudices toward certain demographics. I don't expect a judge to be appointed because they "understand the importance" of what it means to be a woman or a Mormon or married to a Mexican. What about the majority of the people who do not fall into those categories?

4. His moral compass. I do not think he is a bad person, but I don't believe in a lot of his beliefs ranging from abortion to gay rights to affirmative action. I could expound a lot more in this area, but suffice it to say, there IS a right and a wrong. I do not believe in the fuzzy gray area of "oh let's make everyone happy so no one gets their feelings hurt" rhetoric. The Constitution was established to govern a moral people. If we are amoral, how can we make moral judgments and decisions? Once you start amoralizing government, then you soon become a nation without morals because everything is "ok." Scriptures tell us that when the majority of people no longer choose the right, the nation crumbles. I do not believe in "pro-choice" because a woman has many choices already - she has the choice to have protected sex, or not have sex, she has the choice to give an unwanted child up for adoption. Freaking animals have rights, so why wouldn't an unborn child have at least as many if not more rights? I do not believe marriage should be defined as anything else but marriage between a man and a woman. If a man and a man can marry or a woman and a woman can marry, why can't I start to live another "alternative" lifestyle? Why can't I get another husband or my husband get another wife? Or why can't I marry my uncle? Why can't my 8-year-old get married? (NOT THAT I WANT ANY OF THESE - IT'S JUST AN EXAMPLE). Oftentimes, the "rules" that are established to protect those who do not follow the mainstream are just actually reversed prejudice to those who do. Case in point: If my kids want to say the pledge or pray at school, they should be able to. But I digress... these topics could be posts in themselves. Anyway, I could go on and on, but the point is I think Obama has an agenda, and it is not one I agree with.

5. His lack of experience. When you look at their backgrounds of governmental responsibilities and contributions, Barack Obama is like the kid brother trying to tag along and convince the big kids he really is cool enough to hang out with them. It's like comparing someone with a doctorate to a junior in high school. I love this quote from Arnold Swarzenegger,"John McCain has served his country longer in a POW camp than his opponent has in the United States Senate." Seriously, everyone is all up in arms about Palin's lack of governmental experience, but she is not the one running for the President! Obama is. If elected, he WILL be President and he has no experience.

So there you have it. This post could have been much more eloquent, thought-out, probably more "politically correct" and much, much longer, but these are the main points I have concern with. I know I'm the one who said it, but I know I'm not the only one who thinks it. And even if I was, oh well. This election is an important election, and one I have for the most part kept my mouth shut about, but as I said in the beginning, if stating the reasons I am voting or not voting the way I am will help someone make their decision, then I am not afraid to put it on the line.

That being said, if Obama is elected, I will afford him the same respect I feel the office of the President deserves. I remember once in 5th grade when Reagan was elected, a kid wrote on a piece of paper "Assassinate Reagan!" and hung it up on our classroom bulletin board. He got in trouble, but where do you think he even learned that kind of thinking from?? I think it is irresponsible and disrespectful when people (especially parents) bad mouth the President of the United States. Even as this election nears, and I have answered questions from my kids or explained to them why I am voting for McCain, I have never once said a negative comment about Obama. I have only explained to them what I believe and why I feel that McCain most closely follows those beliefs. Because I don't want them being ignorant and saying disrespectful things if Obama is elected. Anyway, I don't know where this part came from, but now I am done. Don't forget to vote on Tuesday!

Friday, October 31, 2008

3 Gallon-Size Bags of Candy Later...

For Halloween this year, Big J was Superman, Little J was a mummy, and Little Man was a dinosaur. Or a dragon. We never decided which he was supposed to be. Little J decided Wednesday night that he wanted to be a mummy. So I used pieces from the same sheet I used last year to make his ghost costume, and safety pinned them around his Tae Kwon Do uniform. I think it turned out pretty good!

We hit the trunk-or-treat at the church the day before, they had a Halloween costume parade and parties at school on Friday, and then trick-or-treating in the neighborhood that night. Little Man was all over trick-or-treating this year! As soon as I told him if he put on these clothes (his costume) he could go get candy, there was no looking back! He was a trooper running between the houses trying to keep up with his older brothers. We really do have 3 of those gallon-size ziploc bags full to the top of candy, unable to be zipped. And this is after they gorged to their little hearts' content!


I put this picture in so you can see Little Man's spikes and tail. He was going to investigate a fire hydrant.

If you can't read my shirt, it says, "For Halloween I'm being a Democrat. Now share all your candy!" I thought I'd try to see if anyone would "spread the wealth" around, but it didn't work.

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Random Funnies

Little Man - Everytime Little Man is in our backyard and the wind is blowing the trees pretty hard, he yells at the trees. I think he gets creeped out that they are moving so much and doesn't like the rustling sound the leaves make. So he'll sit on the trampoline and look up at them and yell, "NO!" while pointing his finger at them.

Little J - Little J has been trying to impress me with his math skills on random occasions. He'll come up to me and inform me of things like, "Mama, did you know 8 + 8 is 16?" So the other day he brings home a kindergarten worksheet that he was suppose to have filled in the missing number. It had things like "6, ___, 8" and "3, ___, 5". Instead of filling in the missing number of the sequence he wrote in the answer to the problem. So, for example, instead of it being "8,9,10" he would write in 8, 18, 10". All his answers were right if that was what he was suppose to have been doing. It made me think of the time I got an "N" on my math work in 2nd grade because I had done all the subtraction problems as addition. The answers were right, just not what I was suppose to have done. (I remember instead of throwing away that paper, I just tried to hide it under the pile of my other papers thinking my parents would somehow not see it....)

Big J - As part of Red Ribbon Week today, the kids were allowed to bring in MP3 players, Ipods, etc. to listen to music during their silent reading times. Big J wanted to bring my Ipod. I'm sorry, but I don't think 8-year-old kids should have $200 Ipods, and I wasn't going to let him bring mine to school. But I wanted him to be able to have some music. So what did I do? I dug out an old Walkman, popped in a Beatles 20 Greatest Hits tape, and he was good to go. He was also extremely excited when I told him he could keep the Walkman - it could be all his. I asked him how it went today and he proudly reported that "no one else had a thing like his - he was the only one!" Oh yeah, Big J was kickin' it old school! I'm sure most of those kids had never even seen a Walkman or a cassette tape before. My poor, deprived child...

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Fall Is In The Air...And On The Ground

And so it begins...

Today the boys and I filled 6 45-gallon lawn bags with mulched leaves. This in and of itself is not necessarily the most momentous thing, although that IS a lot of leaves, except when you factor in that that was from part of our front yard only. And that only 1 of our trees in the front has lost all of its leaves. We still have 3 more trees that need to drop leaves. Not counting the 10 or so in our back...

In other news, we finally carved our pumpkins this past Sunday. Little J picked out the hugest pumpkins possible, so it was quite a task to carve them all, but the boys had fun designing and gutting them. And we have a plethora of pictures taken by Big J of every. single. step. of. the. process. But I wil spare you, and only post a few of the final products.


Happy Halloween!

Friday, October 24, 2008

A Small Rant

*Disclaimer: This rant is political in nature and so if you have a problem with that you are welcome to stop reading now.

Let me start this out by saying this little rant is not against or for one presidential candidate or another. I am not overly excited for either one of them, and think our country is in a sad state of affairs if this is the best we have to offer. But, at the same time, I wouldn't want to do it, so more power to you (them). I am registered Republican because I believe more of my belief system aligns with that party, but I have never voted a straight Republican ticket in any election because I just think that's dumb and usually there are a few non-Republicans I think would do a better job. I can respect people's views and opinions, although I may or may not agree with them. It is interesting to me to hear and understand why people think the way they do, and I like to hear a different side to the story because it helps me to understand the full picture. That being said, this rant's origins are from two separate comments made to me within the last week regarding two different subjects and I just can not get my head around the reasoning. I am only going to comment on one of them here, though.

The comment: Someone said that since I do not make $250,000 a year, I should not care about the proposed "redistribution" plan of the Democratic ticket. Ooookaaay. It's true. I don't make $250,000 a year and most of the people I know and hang around with and am related to do not make that amount. But this tax plan makes absolutely no sense to me. None. First of all, people making more money already do pay a higher amount in taxes. Is the system perfect? Not by any means, but the higher income brackets already do pay more taxes. And on top of that, they are usually the ones making huge contributions to charities and causes, as well.

Secondly, this is not the millenium where people are going to live in some happy fairytale utopia practicing the Law of Consecration. I'm sorry, but I've lived in a country where these kinds of ideals are practiced and I will tell you that it sucks. I have never been around a more apathetic people. The whole deal with "Joe the Plumber" is sad to me. The guy has a dream to buy a business. He wants to work hard, he's probably been planning and saving and working toward this dream. The American Dream - right? And then instead of being encouraged to work toward that goal, let's put a plan into place that will make it impossible for you to reach it. Let's put a plan into place that will punish you for having drive and determination and working toward something bigger and better. It makes no sense to me. What a way to create a mediocre, indifferent society!

This is how I picture a conversations with my kids going if this plan is put into place:

Conversation #1:

"Hey Mom, we want to have a lemonade stand."
"Sure kids, that's great! But once you hit $20, I want you to take part of that money and go give it to all the other kids on the street who didn't have a lemonade stand."
"Why, Mom? Didn't we earn it?"
"Yes, you did. But that's just not fair. Little Bobby didn't have a lemonade stand today and Little Susy's lemonade stand only profited $4, so you need to go spread the wealth."
"Screw that, Mom! I'm just going to sit on my butt and watch TV instead. You'll give me my allowance in a week anyway."

Conversation #2:

"Hey kids, what do you want to be when you grow up?"
"I want to own my own business and be successful."
"Now why would you want to do that? As soon as you hit the $250,000 point, you know you will have to start paying out more money so that all the other people who don't end up being as successful as you can be coddled so they won't blame the state of their lives on the government."
"Oh, you're right. I forgot about that. Never mind. I don't want to have a dream. I don't want to work hard toward a goal. I'll just wait around for the government to take care of me, too."

I have problems with issues on both sides of the ticket this election, but that comment and this plan has really just bugged the heck out of me and I honestly do not understand it. I don't make tons of money, but I definitely do not expect in any way that the people who do, or the government, somehow owe me and should make up that difference. That's ridiculous.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

A Date With Little Man

I decided to start going on dates with my little guys because I want to have that one on one time with them, and someone has to teach them how to treat a lady right, right? So Little Man was the first to benefit, more because logistically that's how it worked out, but we had to start somewhere. Little J will be next week. Big J the next week, and so on.

Little Man and I went to the Louisburg Cider Mill which is about 30 miles south of where we live. It's just this cute little barn place where they make apple cider and other apple products. We went with our friends Sarah and Daisie and their cute kiddos.

You can watch the apples go through the process of being made into cider, as well as see the cider donuts being made. There is also a little general store of lots of homemade goodies. The highlight of the trip to Little Man, however, was running up and down the ramp inside the store over and over again. Aah, the simple pleasures of life. To top our date off, he puked everywhere when I put him in his carseat. Good times. It needed washing anyway. :-)

Little Man and his harem

Krispy Kreme the rural KS way

Saturday, October 18, 2008

It's Amazing the Difference a Few Months Can Make

I ran another 1/2 marathon yesterday morning and I liked it. It's amazing the difference in how one feels when you have been running longer than 8 weeks before a 13.1 mile race. And the difference it makes when it is sunny, not windy, not freezing and beautiful fall scenery is all around you. It was still chilly - upper 40s - but I'll take that any day over what I had last time. Last time, it was only sheer mental fortitude that got me through, but this time, I had to play very little mind games and was able to just enjoy running.


I didn't have hardly anytime to warm up, because I didn't take into account the gridlock there would be at the exit off the highway and in the streets leading to the start line. I ended up parking a little further than expected, leaving all the stuff I had planned to gear check in the car, stashing my keys behind the front tire and then booking it to the start line. They were already singing the national anthem when I got there, so I stretched a minute and we were off.

It was a great course - it was hilly, but I didn't walk any of the hills. I didn't walk any of it except at two drink stations for about 20 feet while I chugged some Gatorade. The last stretch of the race was a gradual downhill for a lot of it which was appreciated. There were fun bands along the way playing for us. My favorite was at mile 5 when the band started into Bon Jovi's Living on a Prayer. It's amazing how much the music pumps you up. And this course was great for people cheering with signs and ringing cowbells and playing music from their cars along the way. They made it fun. JC and the boys were waiting for me at the end, and imagining them them there waiting and cheering was another great motivator.

The only group picture we have, and poor Little Man's stroller and top of his hood is the only thing to make an appearance.


My goal for this race was to finish in 2 hours 10 minutes, and I am happy to report that I did it! My time was 2:08:44. That is 9 min and 6 seconds less than last time, so I was really happy with that time. In my age group, I was 161 out of 382. It was a fun race. Oh, and by the way, I did all this with a teeny tiny bun in the oven.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Little Man's Birthday Celebration

I never posted any pics of Little Man's birthday. We had two small parties to celebrate - one on his actual birthday and one this past weekend when my parents were here. On his real birthday, we just had cupcakes and he opened one present. Then we had a Cars themed celebration the next Saturday. He was so excited to see his Cars cake with a toy Lightning McQueen on top. Little Man loves cars and trucks, so that is what most of his presents consisted of.





And here is a clip of Little Man after he received a stuffed Curious George monkey. I still crack up when I see it, but maybe no one else will think it is funny. I like to refer to this clip as "Little Man violates Curious George."

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Special Day

My parents came in town Friday morning, which gave them a free day with the kids full of trampolines, board games, walks, and Slurpees. They also were able to catch one of Big J's flag football games. But the reason they came was because of Saturday. Big J was baptized Saturday night, and they were able to come to see him and even participate in the program. My mom played the piano and said one of the prayers, and my dad was one of the speakers. Big J was very attentive during the whole thing. There was a good turnout for his baptism, both from members of our church and not, so we were happy so many people came to support him. There was a sweet spirit there and I hope it was a day he will remember.

Big J and his dad before the baptism. Look how handsome they both are! I can't believe he is 8!
All of us before the baptism.

Grandma and Granddad. We are so glad you could be here for his special day!

In his white baptismal clothes ready to go in the water.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Entrepreneur

Yesterday as I drove Big J and his friend home from school, they were making big plans for their new company "Moldy Cheese Books, I.N.C." Not "inc." but i-n-c. I don't think they knew you could say "inc."

The plan was they would write books, all centered around cheese (??don't ask me why??), and then make copies of them, laminate them, and sell them. Anyone who wanted to be in their company had to pay them $1 a month and they would go around and ask stores if they would put their books on the shelf. They discussed getting a website made (Big J suggested hiring his dad to do this) and the web address would be http://www.moldycheesebooks.com/. Nobody go stealing that domain name, ok?

They were so cute making their business strategy. When we got home, Big J asked if he could borrow a clipboard because he was "the manager" of the company and needed a clipboard.

Big J is always trying to concoct ways to make money. For example, this past summer during Little J's T-ball games, he took an ice chest full of drinks and walked around asking people if they wanted an "ice cold drink for 50 cents." Nobody bought one - which may I just say is *TOTALLY LAME.* If I have money on me, I always buy from kids on the sidewalk selling popsicles or lemonade or whatever it is. I figure if they are taking the initiative to get out there and work hard to earn some money, then I can fork over a few cents. It's the principle of the thing. Kind of like I don't buy Girl Scout cookies or other fundraiser things like that unless the kid is the one selling to me, not the parents. Anyway, he didn't lose his entrepreneurial spirit, despite the rejection. In fact, he went back the next game and tried again.

So let it be known that I am giving you fair warning - WATCH OUT WORLD because one day Big J is going to be running things his way - armpit farts and all.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Oh, the Injustice!!!

Little J in 2006 - age 3 1/2
Little J loves Legos. Not the big bulky ones, the tiny little Legos that come in specific sets. He loves to create his own things with them and plays with them all the time. This morning, after lots of playing and "bombs" blowing up and other forms of destruction, the tiny Legos were all over the living room. I asked him to pick them up to which he immediately started whining at the injustice of him having to clean up his mess. But my irritation at his whining was dissipated when he wailed,
"This is a TRAGEDY!!!!!"

Indeed. I couldn't stop laughing.

Sunday, October 5, 2008

General Conference Funnies from Little J

General Conference was today, so we had a nice relaxing time at home watching it on the TV. Here are some of my favorite things that came out of Little J's mouth during that time:

He was playing with Legos and trying to build something that apparently wasn't working out right. He exclaims, "Ugh! My idea is a rotten egg!" I guess that's the new slang for a not very good idea.

When the choir was singing, he gets up and gets about 6 inches from my face and "whispers" very urgently with wide, intent eyes, "Mama, my voice is an instrument."

He looks over at me at one point and says, "Mama, why do you listen to conference with your eyes closed?" Um...because I'm using my ears? Definitely NOT because I am falling asleep....

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Happy Birthday, Little Man!!!

My baby is 2 today.

Little Man makes me smile every day. Every. Single. Day. Multiple times a day. He is sweet and funny and wonderful. I love to see the world through his eyes as he discovers new things, begins to understand new things, and forms his own ideas of how things are suppose to work. I love the smell of his skin. I love his smiles and his laughs. He has the most angelic face - we're talking serious melt-your-heart factor here. We all adore him and are so happy he is part of our family. I love you, Little Man!!! Happy Birthday!


Big brothers meeting Little Man for the first time.

First day home.

Proud brothers. Check out that hair!

4 days old and surrounded by love.

My little papoose 5 days old.

19 days old and looking like a 3 month old.

Precious. 2 1/2 months old.